Hi, Louanne,
I'm sorry that you're dealing with ITP but glad you found this site. You're right - it's very comforting to know that other families are dealing with ITP and living through it!
As Sandi mentioned, it will be very helpful when you meet with the hematologist to be as informed as possible about treatments, etc. My son, Brady, was diagnosed 9-1/2 years ago, when he was 5. He has been through a number of treatments, but not as many as some. Brady was referred to a pediatric hematologist the night we got his blood test results so we were immediately treated there. Brady's platelet count was 2k when diagnosed and he was started on a pretty high dose of prednisone. Prednisone only brought him up to about 60k, but it was enough to allow us to go on a previously scheduled vacation the next week (couldn't miss the Disney Cruise!). Since prednisone didn't work, Brady then started getting WinRho, which worked for a year or so, then stopped working and we switched to IVIG. That worked for a few years, then stopped and Brady had Rituxan, which didn't work at all. We have now switched back to WinRho, but Brady's last treatment was in March '10 and his last count in March '11 was 62k, so he's somewhat stable.
At the beginning, it's definitely scary and it takes a while to figure out what treatments work and what you can tolerate. You also can't help but worry. I'm an extreme worrier, so there were days when I was consumed with reading and obsessing and that's okay. I think I quietly cried on the way to every treatment for the first couple of years - you gotta do what you gotta do to get through it. To me, it seems like a good thing that Evan had some type of viral illness just prior to diagnosis. It seems that much of the ITP in children is triggered by a virus. I'm not sure if Evan would be considered a "child" or an adult in terms of ITP but, as you probably know, something like 80% of kids have acute cases of ITP, where there is a complete remission within 6 months.
A couple things to think about with treatments: we have found that the brands of IVIG and WinRho can impact side effects. Brady gets very sick from IVIG, but the side effects were somewhat lessened when his doctor finally mentioned that brands can make a difference and tried Gammunex (I think that's right). The other things that helped lessen side effects were very slow infusion (requiring 24 hours in a hospital), lots of hydration before (water, gatorade, ice pops), during (saline drip with the IVIG) and after, as well as Benadryl, Tylenol and Solumedrol throughout the infusion. We would continue Benadryl and Tylenol for the 24 hours after returning home as well. Similarly, Brady got ill from WinRho until his new doctor switched to the brand Rhophylac, which greatly helped. Although you can receive WinRho from a 15 minute "push," Brady always receives it slowly - the infusion usually takes 1-2 hours. Again, it's important to hydrate before, during and after and Brady receives the Benadryl and Tylenol throughout and at home. For Brady, WinRho is a much easier treatment and he usually will only get a slight headache and some chills from it. During our many years we've also consulted a naturopath, a homeopath, been to healing masses, had Brady's hair analyzed for chemicals and been to an "energy healer." We are looking at going to a homeopath again - I think it's important to explore all avenues.
You'll find that everyone on here has had different experiences and reacts differently to the same medications. In the beginning, we had to treat Brady fairly regularly (every 8 weeks or so) because once his count dropped below 20k he would get bad nosebleeds. After a few years Brady received an IVIG infusion that kept his counts up for a whole year, but then it stopped working. Since we switched back to WinRho, Brady has often gone a year to 18 months in between treatments. We don't know why - we think puberty probably has something to do with it.
On this site, you'll see lots of discussion of treating vs. non-treating. I've been thinking lately that it's kind've a funny discussion because I'm guessing 99% of the people on here PREFER to not treat - I mean, who wants to put chemicals/drugs in their (or their child's) body? But many people HAVE to treat, for a variety of reasons. For Brady, we have to treat when he starts getting severe nosebleeds, which usually occurs below 15-20k. We have also treated him when he's low and we have an activity planned that he wants to do; we have treated before several ski vacations and so that he could go to an amusement park with his class. We never want to treat, but with active kids it's sometimes a necessary evil. Having said that, Brady plays basketball and flag football, rides bikes and scooters and continues doing so even when his counts drop down to the 20s. He'll be entering high school in the fall and wants to play tackle football. His hematologist suggested weekly counts and monthly treatments of WinRho during the season. Some people may think that's crazy, but Brady will only be a high school freshman once and will only be able to try freshman football once. So, if he definitely decides to play we will have to treat him. The people on this site are very supportive of whatever road you choose because everyone's path is different. I think that times have changed in the last 10 years of our journey with doctors looking at and treating symptoms more than counts. When Brady was first diagnosed, his doctor would push us to treat him as soon as he dropped to 20k and I would constantly battle him to wait until he dropped a little lower or started getting nosebleeds. Now, I think it's pretty much the norm to wait for symptoms in most cases.
Don't be discouraged by our 9-1/2 years of ITP! We found this site a couple years after Brady was diagnosed but in that time I have seen hundreds of kids come and go, and I would think that Evan has a very good chance of being one of those kids that has a short stay with ITP! If your stay is a little longer, stay confident that ITP is a bit of an annoyance but something that Evan can live with and live well with (bad grammar!). Brady just chugs along and mostly forgets about his ITP now. He is really active and looks completely "normal." The other day he said that a girl from his elementary school mentioned his "blood thing" and the other kids in his class thought she was just making stuff up. Life goes on.
Sorry for the super long response (!) and keep us updated on Evan's progress.
Beth - mom to Brady (age 19, diagnosed 1/18/02) and Matthew (age 21)